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What to do when your boyfriend goes on dating websites

I’ve been waiting nearly a decade for him to propose; this is insane. I suggest you ask him yourself to marry you and if he says no, MOA.

Also, his turning down an offer to do what you would like is a key sign that he is not flexible.

It often leaves the impression that he does not care about your interests.

He may, or may not, but he is not supportive either way. In the previous example, the “please” was left out intentionally. He will not say “thank you”, “you’re welcome”, “please” or even “excuse me” to you.

“Honey, go pick up some soda for me.” sounds like a genuine request for assistance. It is because he is expecting you to comply with his requests.

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Putting himself in a “father figure” position will install more of a sense of control.

Treating you like a child that went to the mall, prior to doing her homework, is the kind of humiliation in you he is trying to achieve.

For some, the fears go away without a second thought. That is the main reason a boyfriend can become a controlling nightmare.

It is hard to pinpoint the answer to why this behavior exists, but, if you feel as if you are being controlled, being able to identify the behavior is your first step to freedom.

He said he doesn’t want someone who is always depending on him to say, “Let’s go out,” and that I should make suggestions, too, but every time I do he says he is busy. Then, the funny thing is that, after seven months, he told me he was married but it wasn’t for love, it was just to help her with paperwork.